The different situations and problems that happen in the world every day indicate that many men are facing the burden of what is bothering them emotionally and in life, but they do not have the motivation to talk about it or to take advantage of it.
It is the realization of all that in the community and in the work he does every day as a social worker that made Mr. Andile Nduli rebuke it with Bafo Unload, a gathering that rebuke it for the third time and a year for men only.
In this gathering which will be held at House on The Hill, Ballito, north of Durban on Friday July 31 to Saturday August 1, about 50 men will gather to be part of it. Entry costs R1 000 per person.
Narrating it, Nduli said that in the past he used to make it like a conference, but he realized that it was not enough to deliberate well and openly about all the situations that they are eager to talk about and discuss as men.
“So this time we have planned to do it in such a peaceful area of the farms and we have extended the time as it will be two days which will help us to be able to brainstorm properly and help each other in different situations that hinder men’s lives,” said Nduli.
Continuing, he said that apart from discussing the critical situations that plague men, there will be different games that they will do in this area, including cooking, which they will do with the aim of making men feel free to discuss their problems.
“We will discuss very serious situations, including the problem of how to fix the situation so that you can continue to be present in your child’s life and be a good father to him, when you no longer love or get along with his mother,” he said.
He said that apart from that, he is also looking for them to go to other places around the country with the aim of helping men in different places where they are, which will help to create peace in the society – and reduce the number of men who do bad things.