I KNOW that being a son-in-law is a good thing and going to the son-in-law as a son-in-law is not a problem because after all you have already paid and you are known to the girlfriends, going to the son-in-law is not a rain for anyone. You need to first go to the girl’s house to get known.
Then there are these fake son-in-laws from the townships who don’t hesitate to live in “in-laws” without spending a single penny. I’m just confused as to what their point really is. I don’t have a problem with all that because maybe you got permission from the girlfriend. But one thing that bothers me is what kind of man agrees to be a father-in-law?
What kind of man really agrees to become a son-in-law? First of all, I know that the son-in-law does not stay for many days at his father-in-law’s house because they will gossip about him and then the labor is an expense because you have to bring a solid tray to Lawi.
But today’s grooms are getting weird, they don’t hesitate to stay even for a week at the groom’s house, enjoying being brought by a tray and rolling on the sheets that smell good. Listen, my brother, that’s how you end up being a dreamer of a groom and you end up being called by a name you don’t know at home, like if you usually stay for four days, you’ll end up being called “4days”. You found out that even the clothes you wear alone don’t change and you end up being called the color of a cow.
That’s a little bit too much for some people, a person ends up staying with his in-laws and turns into a boy there and they end up tending the cows and sending them to the city, if you are about to come, you get a call saying, poor old man, please bring us 10kg of flour.
They even said that there is no problem, my son, relax, because you are like a child left at home. You are also happy and stupid until you scheme with the boys there, first of all, my Lord, you are a dreamer there and they even give you a name you don’t know and call you “mahlalekhweni”.
He found out that my Lord, the wife’s child is no longer acting because it has been done for a long time because in some families it has been neglected until the mother is even forgotten, he found out that this son-in-law is working well and now they want him to be the one to stay at home so that he can feed himself and forget about his family.
These people have not finished their dowry and are not married. You can hear the in-laws talking about the fact that, not the son-in-law, we can cut the land apart from him and our daughter. Oh, so fast, so please my Lord and you, my son-in-law. they’ve caught you and they’re done with you, you’re about to turn into a real boy, even if there are events, you’re the one who’s going to be nervous and shy, even if you’re not given a lot of money, they keep making fun of you, calling you a brother-in-law, and they’re taunting you, bthey do not know that they are benefiting.
Please, my brothers, don’t let your in-laws make you feel bad, don’t go to your in-laws too often because they will get used to you badly. Don’t go to live with your in-laws no matter how busy you are because they will act like a fool.